You Can't Judge a Book By Its Cover

We often look at others and make snap (or quick) judgments based upon what we see or how someone talks. However, if we take a little more time to get to know the person, we often find that the person is very different then we initially thought. Many people do this with people with disabilities as well. I see people do it with my students all the time. They look at them and think they are strange, loud, feel sorry for them, stupid, are scared of them, and/or lots of other negative things. If they would stop for a moment, they might see all the amazing qualities that my students possess. They might see that they are not their disability but a child. A prime example of this was displayed by one of my students that can be a rough kid at times (sometimes saying aggressive things or actions). One day he showed his true colors and let me see who he really is. As another child came up the stairs (a child that is legally blind), he was worried about the child falling and hitting his head, so he assisted him up the stairs and helped to guide him into the classroom. He was SO gentle with him and talked him the whole way there. He held his hand and back the whole way. This is a kid that most wouldn't expect this from, but over time showed his true colors. He is a sweet and caring boy that enjoys helping others. After this happened, it reminded me how important it is to take some extra time to get to know someone before passing judgement on them.